Family Counselling Centres

Couples Counselling

About couples counselling

You would think that the diversity and uniqueness of being in relationship with another person would be too full of mystery and unknowns.  That’s certainly part of its attractiveness.  But it turns out that we know a fair amount through science of the underlying mechanics of how relationships work, how they can go wrong, and how they can progress through injuries back to health and greater maturity.

Couples counselling applies what we know about these mechanics to your particular relationship and the particular struggles you and your partner are coming in to work through.  So much of what is difficult in relationships is not only the skill of communicating itself, but also finding how to compromise and learn the language of how our partner communicates differently from us, and how to find a way to bridge those differences and create a new way of communicating that works for both of you.

How can couples counselling help?

Sometimes, the pains we’ve suffered in our relationships are too big even for improvements in communication to help, and this is where therapists can provide a setting, environment, and guidance for working through these especially difficult challenges, from affairs to years-long failures in support and betrayals.  Couples counselling can help even very deep injuries heal when the couples are ready to take on the challenge of working on it together and growing closer together again.